Again, the most important thing is to understand WHY or the reason things/people are happening/doing in your life.
Some may be good, some may be bad. The good is probably because you've been working towards it for some time, or it could just be a stroke of LUCK.
As for the bad.
Well, there will ALWAYS be bad stuff and bad people in your life. Unfortunately.
You CANNOT AVOID it. The thing to note is that you have to FACE them DIRECTLY and not be afraid.
Because no matter what, it WILL pass. They will go away eventually as long as you bring yourself to overcome them.
The post below is from Prose and Poems, which I thought would be good to share.
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime... When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.....
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy...Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season....
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons--those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
Some of you are more than friends--you are family. And some of you are more than family--you are friends.
Thank you for being part of my life.