Life changing mindset

 No matter who you are, you probably know in your heart that you should have a better life than the one you are living.

Maybe you are stuck in a dead end job you hate, struggle with an illness or addiction you never asked for, or in a relationship with someone who doesn’t truly appreciate you.

You might even truly believe that maybe you deserve these things, that you somehow brought these on yourself, or that being happy or healthy “just isn’t meant for me.”

But if you look carefully…in that pain or sadness, there is something inside you that knows better…that is frustrated. It fuels some of that pain.

This isn’t how life is supposed to be for you, and you know it.

You know that you don’t deserve to be stuck in some dead end job, you know that whatever illness you might struggle with *has* to have a way to be better managed than this, or that you are a *quality* person with a big heart who deserves to be treated with respect…and maybe even adored.

The mindset that can change your life? Possibility.

It has changed my life too. I went from a girl living on a farm, with no one in my family even having a college education - to being the go-to consultant for some of the most well-known people in business, entertainment, and sports.

What is “possible” for you? What if you allowed yourself to believe?

To do this is a massive risk.

People will laugh at you, they’ll question you, and they’ll wonder “who you think you are.”

It doesn’t have to be a massive leap to start. It can be starting to question the basics.

• Is it “possible” to have a better job than the one you have today? Get your resume together and start applying for one step up in your career.
• Is it “possible” to feel better than you do right now if you have been struggling with your health or mental health? Look for a specialist and get a second opinion.
• Is it “possible” for your relationship to improve, for you both to take the initiative to work on things, or even for you to leave if you are being mistreated? Form a plan.

There is possibility for everyone. I truly believe that. And if you are sitting somewhere in your home right now, just know that I believe that for you too. I know it’s true.

Possibility doesn’t mean everyone needs to be driving a Ferrari…it means that everyone can be closer to what they want for themselves.

For some, it may be that Ferrari…but you know, for many people, it just might be feeling loved for once in their life.

There is possibility in me, and there is possibility in you.

And that mindset has changed my life.