Wednesday, April 03, 2019

Dark Lessons for Life

Dark Lessons for Life

  1. One who care less in particular relations typically has more power than other.
  2. You can never change people around you no matter how hard you try.
  3. Respect yourself, because people will notice it if you don’t.
  4. Be nice to people and they’ll be nice to you is a myth.
  5. Small fluffy compromise of today can be the most demeaning and disheartening moments of tomorrow.
  6. One day we all will be the old souls and unappealing in the eyes of society.
  7. The less care you show about a person, the easier it becomes to end up with that person.
  8. Men can never be the women and women can never be the men. Both genders are different with different capabilities and natures.
  9. There is always this urge to sleep with someone else no matter how deep you are in love with your partner.
  10. Life is not fair so you can not always get someone or something you want so bad.
  11. people will turn their back on you to get ahead of you sooner than you think.
  12. Time will eat your life away quicker than you would expect.
  13. You will never know how close you are to being hated for until you are.
  14. People can easily abandon you for the small reason no matter how stronger bond you used to share.
  15. When things get tough you need to be your own best friends.
  16. Always make sure that your friends are truly your friends. damn they're not your friends.
  17. Bad is new normal and cool.
  18. Everything can change either for better or worse.
  19. You cannot change someone who does not want to be changed.
  20. Love does not only make you blind but also a fool, accept it.
  21. Someone said “show me one pretty woman and I will show you one man who is utterly tired of having sex with her”.
  22. Higher you set the expectations in relationship from the beginning, the harder it will be to sustain the relationship. E.g. sending your partner flowers each day and it will be cute for first few days, cheesy it will be after that, and then awkward and finally intolerable.
  23. Never share all of your secrets never ever.
  24. People don’t want to hear truths about themselves they want to hear sweet lies.
  25. There is no such thing as honest opinion in corporate life, people value white lies.
  26. If you don’t love yourself no one else is going to love you, also respect.
  27. Everyone has worn masks they play different roles by showing different roles. Lovers, family person, coworkers. you can’t imagine how different people can get in different social setting.
  28. Some people are evil, they enjoy it being evil. So, it’s not your fault if you end up being with such type of person.
  29. Grades can only get you to halfway. Your social skills are something people pay attention and value.
  30. Once your hurt someone, they will hardly forget it. They will always remember how much you did hurt them.
  31. Appearance does matter. We live in a critical and pretty judgmental world. Your family, your partner, coworker and your bosses will judge you for your actions.
  32. You cannot make everyone happy, it’s impossible. There will be always someone who will be disagreeing with you. Frankly, you are not living a life if you don’t have enemies.
  33. Money is everything, without money you are nothing. Undeniably Nothing.
  34. If you are not good at something people need then you are a burden even to your parents. They may not speak it.
  35. “Happy Family Frame” is all about your income. You are respected with respect to your earning in family. No one cares about your struggle except your parents.
  36. Nothing will make your relatives happy than you being jobless.
  37. When you get fail in life you will see that no one cares except your parents. So, live your life to fullest and make it happen. Do your best.
  38. All that glitter is definitely GOLD in a corporate life. If you have good contacts and network then you will reach good higher level. The one who struggle gradually and steadily will never be appreciated.
  39. Getting a job in this society is not happiness rather it is a relief and ego advocate.
  40. Majority of people want to achieve certain goals not because they want it but because others have achieved it.
  41. Marriage does not make a man, a family person. Not even having kids. So, the idea of “get him married. It will make him responsible” is old folks talking
  42. Marriage does not suppose to bring two family closer but two persons who crib together.
  43. No matter how many times you try to die, you will find some way to live for a few more years.
  44. Love is about accepting your partner with each and every flaw – is the biggest bullshit ever in this society. People in general hate flaws so would you eventually.
  45. People will use you open heartedly, throw you in a trash and will move on.
  46. Nobility has nothing to do with old age. People are evil by nature and they are till their death.
  47. Women can understand other women’s pain is an utterly overrated statement.
  48. Never set yourself on fire, to keep others warm.

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