Over the past 2 years, every day begins with thoughts about what to resolve today, how to resolve it and to ensure the issue doesn't crop up again in the future.
Sometimes, I set appointments which I have to cancel because something else suddenly turns up and I have to adjust. It's a blessing that my schedule is fluid and flexible, but it also means I am deferring a few matters I have to attend to anyway.
I always used to think, wouldn't life be easier if we had no problems / issues / emergencies?
Then I realised. THAT IS LIFE.
Get used to it.
So don't go saying, wait, let me get over this obstacle first before...
Just go ahead and do what you think has to be done, and perhaps you have to balance it with other tasks all too often.
"For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin -- real life.
But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.
Then life would begin.
At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."
-- Fr. Alfred D’Souza
Life always brings problems.
We really can't live without them.
And so it helps to shift our perspective.
We can stop trying to avoid the problems.
We can stop feeling victimized by what's happening.
Instead, we can consciously work with the challenge of the moment to learn more about ourselves and the world.
When we make this shift in attitude, we discover ourselves to be strong and powerful.
"Every lesson is a widening and deepening of consciousness.
It is a stretching of the mind beyond its conceptual limits and a stretching of the heart beyond its emotional boundaries.
It is a bringing of unconscious material into consciousness, a healing of past wounds, and a discovery of new faith and trust."
-- Paul Ferrini
