Monday, November 07, 2022

Golden rules in life

1. It’s okay to not be happy all the time.

2. Everyone has a purpose in life. Perhaps yours is playing games

3. Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.

4. All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.

5. You can’t fix stupid.

6. Laugh a lot. It burns a lot of calories.

7. Trying is the first step toward success, or the failure.

8. Be stubborn about your goals, but flexible about your methods

Wednesday, September 21, 2022

Everyday the 12 steps

 1. Wake.

Open my eyes. No alarm. Let my brain engage. Stretch. Sit up. Embrace the day slowly and joyfully.

2. Pray.

Thank God for another wonderful day to wake up to. And then I do wonderfully.

3. Fill.

While getting ready I give thanks for all the blessings I have. And pray for the ones I desire. And start with confidence.

4. Love.

I wake up my wife with a kiss. Let her and me know love still exists. Love makes life rich.

5. Share.

Tweet, FB or IG. It fills me with fulfillment to share what I know. And helps me clarify my thoughts.

6. Help.

I head to my office. I’m blessed to have a business I enjoy and clients who are friends. I spend my day helping others achieve their dreams as I achieve mine.

7. Care.

Encouraging others and being encouraged.

8. Play.

Find something you love to play and do it on your free time.

9. Move.

Most days my wife and I take a walk and on the days we don’t I golf. Get the body moving. Catch up on the day. Stimulating.

10. Refuel.

We have dinner with our children and friends as often as possible. Or just the two of us will have dinner and watch Netflix. Refuel and enjoy.

11. Unwind.

As the day ends I climb into bed and read until I’m sleepy. Then drift off slowly in the way I’d woken up.

12. End.

As I drift off I kiss my wife good night. And give thanks for the gift of one more day that I got to enjoy. And look forward to another tomorrow.

I struggled for years trying to find happiness. When I finally found it I realized I’d had it all along deep inside of me.

A rich full life is made up of common but important moments.

Thursday, September 08, 2022

5 things

 First, know what success really is for you. And know what a successful life looks like.

Second, bring those you love along on the journey. The most joyful were those who were close to their spouses, family and friends.

Third, join with others in the pursuit. Those who become successful accomplish it with others.

Fourth, help and be helped. Share what you know and learn from those who are ahead of you.

Fifth, never give up. Life has setbacks. Those who succeed keep getting up and going forward.

Thursday, August 18, 2022

What are the most important life lessons


1. Laugh in the places you’ve cried. Change the narrative.

2. Stop comparing yourself to strangers on the internet.

3. In a world where everyone wears a mask, it’s a privilege to see a soul.

4. Faces are never ugly or beautiful, minds are.

5. Your energy is currency. Spend it well. Invest it wisely.

6. Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.

7. It’s okay to disconnect from everyone to connect back to yourself.

8. You can become happy just by deciding to be happy.

Tuesday, August 16, 2022

Ten imperatives to guide towards growth

  1. Put competitive advantage first. Start with a winning, scalable formula.
  2. Make the trend your friend. Prioritize profitable, fast-growing markets.
  3. Don’t be a laggard. It’s not enough to go with the flow—you need to outgrow your peers.
  4. Turbocharge your core. Focus on growth in your core industry—you can’t win without it.
  5. Look beyond the core. Nurture growth in adjacent business areas.
  6. Grow where you know. Focus on growing where you have an ownership advantage.
  7. Be a local hero. Commit to winning on the home front.
  8. Go global if you can beat local. Expand internationally if you have a transferable advantage.
  9. Acquire programmatically. Combine healthy organic growth with serial acquisitions.
  10. It’s OK to shrink to grow. Ruthlessly prune your portfolio if you need to.

Thursday, June 23, 2022

25 Things You'll Need to Know After High School

Attention Graduates: There is the kind of education you get in school and the kind you get afterward. Both are important. Put them together, and you have wisdom.

The trouble is, life is generally half over before you figure out what is going on. Graduating seniors can save 25 years of trial, error and hard knocks by memorizing the lessons of life listed below.

On the average, you learn about one big lesson per year after you leave high school. In really tough years, you learn two or three. Some years, you don't learn anything. After 40, you forget things and have to learn them again.

Some of this information is borrowed. Some is stolen. Some may even be original, but that's doubtful. It's pretty hard to be original in a world as old as this one.

  1. Don't sweat the small stuff, and remember, most stuff is small.

  2. The most boring word in any language is "I."

  3. Nobody is indispensable, especially you.

  4. Life is full of surprises. Just say "never" and you'll see.

  5. People are more important than things.

  6. Persistence will get you almost anything eventually.

  7. Nobody can make you happy. Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.

  8. There's so much bad in the best of us and so much good in the worst of us that it doesn't behoove any of us to talk about the rest of us.

  9. Live by what you trust, not by what you fear.

  10. Character counts. Family matters.

  11. Eating out with small children isn't worth it, even if someone else is buying.

  12. If you wait to have kids until you can afford them, you probably never will.

  13. Baby kittens don't begin to open their eyes for six weeks after birth. Men generally take about 26 years.

  14. The world would run a lot smoother if more men knew how to dance.

  15. Television ruins more minds than drugs.

  16. Sometimes there is more to gain in being wrong than right.

  17. Life is so much simpler when you tell the truth.

  18. People who do the world's real work don't usually wear neckties.

  19. A good joke beats a pill for a lot of ailments.

  20. There are no substitutes for fresh air, sunshine and exercise.

  21. A smile is the cheapest way to improve your looks, even if your teeth are crooked.

  22. May you live life so there is standing room only at your funeral.

  23. Mothers always know best, but sometimes fathers know too.

  24. Forgive yourself, your friends and your enemies. You're all only human.

  25. If you don't do anything else in life, love someone and let someone love you.